Hello Dr.
I have had 3 MCs ( chromosome issues) 3 rounds of er, in total 34 eggs, 23 fertilized, 5 blasts no euploid, 1 failed fresh 3-day transfer. I am 40 started all this when I was 38. My partner has been tested he’s okay. Yesterday had the call to review my last round, dr. thinks I have more than average unhealthy eggs and that my blast rate is low. My Dr. says, statistics show that I should have had at least 1-2 euploid by now…
Where do we go from here? We may be able to pull together money for two more rounds, with a refund policy…or do we start to consider other options…and continue to try naturally?
She sounded so doubtful that naturally would work, like only 5% chance of getting pregnant and 1% that it would be healthy…
I know my partner is weary and worried that we’ll lose everything including our sanity…I feel like I am not done…I think at this point it’s being able o live my life saying I tried everything and trying to avoid regret and resentment and anger that sometimes I feel growing in me…
Last night I was even saying that even sitting here now with everything that we have done, I still feel young and that I can have a baby…am I delusional? Should we really consider other options and work on grieving and coming to peace? I feel insecure in every decision I make at this point, in every area, work life, etc… Thank you for your advice…