Hi Dr Geoffrey Sher,

By means of introductions, I’m Natalie and I’m struggling to find answers on my IVF journey. My endless research to try and find answers has led me to your page (after you answered another persons struggles with IVF, thank you) and I was wondering if you could help me as I’m at a lost with knowing the right next step?

I’m currently 31 years old and I found out the day after my honeymoon that I have an AMH of 1.4pmol. I have stage 1 endometriosis and my AFC has been 4-15 upon every scan. Because of my low amh and my struggles to get pregnant naturally, I started my IVF journey. I’ve currently had 2 cycles:
1) short protocol Jan 2024 (300IUI menopur) – I started with 15 follicles which led to 3 follicles around day 5. I continued to day 8 where 4 follicles were 10-21mm. I took the trigger on day 8. At egg collection I got 4 eggs, 3 mature, all fertilised, all made it to day 3 ( 1 at 8 cell, 1 at 7 cell, 1 at 5 cell). I got no embryos on day 5 as they all slowed down. I was told they were highly unlikely to progress in day 6 so I could implant my morulas which I did but with no success. I was told that my eggs are likely poor quality due to slow progress from day 1 to day 3.
2) long protocol May 2024 (450 IUI menopur). This time I started with 10 follicles, day 7 only 4 responded but all approximately same size 8-12mm. Day 12 all 4 follicles were 18-21mm. Upon egg collection I had 3 empty follicles, 1 egg collected which was immature.

As you can imagine, I’m devastated. I was holding out hope as my twin sister has a lower amh and has responded well to all protocols given and is now currently pregnant after 2 cycles. I’ve been to Greece to take several tests to rule out what might be going wrong including: nk killer cells, thrombophilia, karotype, sperm dna fragmentation, uterine microbiome and x-fragile. All tests come back normal. I’m either being told I’m unfortunate or I have bad quality eggs and should look at donor eggs. What is your thoughts on this? I want to try one last time but I just don’t know what to do. In London, the protocol seems defined from the outset with no variation mid cycle and I don’t seem to fit the one size fits all. I’m not sure if the high dose medication is affecting the quality of my eggs? I was told just yesterday that chances of having my own baby is less than 5% and my twin got lucky. I’m just lost and desperate to be a mum and don’t know which way to turn next, can you help me?

Thank you in advance. Sorry for all the information.

Natalie